You need to raise a son with love! The rules of upbringing, which every mother should know ...
Every evening I say to my son: "I love you." And the boy, who is 7 years old, answers me: “Anyway, I love you more” ... Some mothers are especially lucky, they have a son. The connection between mother and child is very strong, but in the case of sons it is special.
A man who was engaged in unimaginable affairs all day-ran very fast, played tricks, fought and was capricious, turns into such a gentle and sensitive creature that he does not even believe! This is an important point: you need to let the child know that his love is mutual, and mom loves him no matter what.
Then a real man will grow out of the boy, not only strong, responsible and corresponding to the ideas about men in this world, but also able to love! But this is the main thing for a person to be able to give his love to others and appreciate it.
These rules are clear to every mother, but even the most diligent parents should be reminded of such things. After all, the daily bustle sometimes erases the essence of what is happening - for the sake of which, in fact, we all gathered here and why we do everything. Remember the most beautiful moments that fall to the lot of mothers raising their son!
How to raise sons
1. Feelings Turn into Words
To help your child cope with emotions, it is worth teaching him to express his feelings in words. A healthy child is one that does not hold back its emotions, understands itself, knows how to control sensations and calls things by their proper names. Emotional tightness causes many diseases! Lead by example how to express emotions correctly and how to call them.
2. Support Forever
The main fan of the son is his mother, of course. She knows everything about his achievements and failures, remembers the smallest details of his life. Sometimes a son may be ashamed of his devoted fan, but he will always know that in this world there is a person for whom he is the most important.
Do business with your son, teach him how to cook, wash, clean and watch yourself. It will definitely be useful to him!
Dance together, and never make fun of the child’s awkward movements. Dance is a way to get to know your body better and express your state through movement. This is an excellent therapy for bad mood and stress.
5. Good people.
There are a lot of good people around, and everyone is beautiful in their own way! Teach your child to be receptive to positive examples, talk about outstanding scientists, travelers, writers ... Belief in people takes root since childhood. When it is not, life loses its meaning. With a negative son still has time to face, but to see everything is good - this can be taught.
6. The best example
A superhero is a mom. The most intelligent, beautiful and kind. Always remember that you are ideal for your child and conform to him.
A person must believe in something. If you protect a child from religion, teach him to believe in goodness and justice, in karma. Faith saves from loneliness and despair and will be with the child all his life.
There are things that need to be careful and gentle. Animals, nature, small children and the feelings of other people are real treasures.
Things break, deteriorate and get dirty, this is inevitable. Mom should take it for granted.Extra quarrel about the soiled clothes is useless, it is much better to teach the child to correct the consequences of his stormy activities.
Maintaining mutual understanding with the son is very important, and for this you need to be interested in what he is interested in. For mom, this is useful - learning something new, she retains her youth!
Walk more often together, enjoy the beauty around. Teach your child to understand nature and to enjoy observation.
The son does not always have to win - let him lose. This is a useful experience that will teach him to relate to life philosophically. Everything will not always work out, you need to earn a victory.
Do not refuse to help the child and ask for help from him! This is an excellent tool for educating a wise person. Helping mom, the son feels useful and is learning to help other people.
To achieve perfection, you need to work! Talents without effort mean nothing. Teach your son to be diligent and do not quit without finishing them. It did not work out at the first attempt - with the tenth it will turn out exactly.
Try to answer all the questions that the child asks you.Ask questions. The most important thing is to teach the child to find answers to all the issues of interest to him or her independently.
Mom should let dad be dad! For a son, it is an authority; it is not necessary to undermine him, even if the father does not always cope with his role.
It's very important for a boy! Choose a sport that will not be too traumatic - for example, swimming. Physical strength and health will help a man to be confident.
Tactile contact is important for both boys and girls. Hugging, kissing and holding hands - it means to show your love. Teach this to your child.
Take your son with you on a visit, on a journey, everywhere. This is an invaluable experience that will shape his personality!
20. Necessary things
Never forget to fold the napkins, antibacterial agent and plaster in your handbag! Without this, it is better not to leave the house.
21. Good manners
To be able to give way, to be polite and even courteous, to respect women are useful qualities. They will have people to their son and contribute to social adaptation. Always show courtesy with your own example.
22. Reading together.Read the books together!
When a child is already reading on his own, it’s very cool to just sit next to him and read his book. An example of an adult is contagious!
Your son is the treasure of your heart, and he must always know about it. The boy will turn into a man, but he will love you just as much.
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